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Pope to dads: Play with your kids, be strong, loving, moral role models

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29 January 2015 - Updated on 1 April 2021
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Cherished child: Pope Francis blesses a child as he arrives to lead a general audience in St Peter's Square at the Vatican. Photo: CNS/Paul Haring

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Cherished child: Pope Francis blesses a child as he arrives to lead a general audience in St Peter’s Square at the Vatican.
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WHEN their lives are all work and no play, men turn their children into “orphans” who lack a father to guide them, show them love and teach them values, Pope Francis said.

“They are orphans in a family because their fathers are often absent, also physically, from home, but above all because when they are home they don’t act like fathers, they don’t dialogue with their children, they don’t fulfil their role as educators, they don’t give their children, by way of their example and their words, those principles, values and rules of life that they need like bread,” he said.

At his general audience yesterday (January 28), the Pope continued a series of talks on the family by focusing on the role of the father.

Speaking to about 7000 people gathered in the Paul VI audience hall, the Pope said that in the past, fathers were sometimes too authoritarian, treating their children like “servants” and not helping them take responsibility for forging their own way in life.

“However, as often happens, we have gone from one extreme to another,” the Pope said.

“The problem today does not seem to be so much the overbearing presence of fathers as much as it is rather their absence, their hiding” from their responsibility as parents, he said.

The world today, especially in the West, seemed like “a world without fathers” where men were so focused on their jobs or personal fulfilment that they neglected their families, he said.

The Pope recalled how when he served as Archbishop of Buenos Aires he would often ask fathers if they played with their kids, “if they had the courage of love to ‘waste’ their time with their children. And their answer was awful, you know. The majority said, ‘Well, I can’t, too much work’.”

Christian communities needed to be extra attentive to the crisis of fatherhood in society today and how so many young people felt “orphaned” within their own families, the Pope said. So many problems kids had, some of them serious, stemmed from them not having a decent father figure – a father who was an authoritative, loving guide and role model, he said.

In fact, the more a father needed to work or be away from home, the more important it was he lived up to his duty of providing solid, quality guidance, he said.

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Another problem, the Pope said, was sometimes fathers seemed lost or unsure of what role they were supposed to play in the family and “so, being in doubt, they opt out, they withdraw and neglect their responsibilities, perhaps hiding behind a dubious relationship of ‘equal footing’ with their children”, he said.

While it was true fathers needed to accompany their kids, he said, they must not forget they must act like a parent, not a best friend because “that is not good for the child”.

Society had a paternal role as well, he said; it must take an active, responsible role toward young people and not leave them “orphans” without prospects for a good education and employment.

Young people who were “orphaned of ideals”, values and hope, the Pope said, would fill that void with “idols” and be driven by fleeting pleasures and the illusion of “the god of money”, robbing them of their real treasures within.

Jesus, who promised he would not leave anyone behind as an orphan, was the teacher that can guide families, he said. He is “the hope that the world can change, that love conquers hatred and that there can be a future of brotherhood and peace for everyone”.

Toward the end of the audience, the Pope said some people might think his catechesis was “too negative” by looking only at the failures in fatherhood today.

But he promised the following week’s catechesis would look at the beauty of fatherhood, echoing the audience’s Gospel reading from John 3:17: “For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world might be saved through him.”

The Pope said he wanted “to start with the darkness in order to arrive at the light so that the Lord can help us understand these things better”.

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